What to Do When Your Ex Doesn’t Follow Parenting Orders
Parenting orders are there to make sure arrangements for your children are clear after separation or divorce. But when your ex doesn’t follow those orders, it can be really stressful and upsetting.
If you’re dealing with this, here’s what you can do to try and resolve the situation and protect your children’s wellbeing.
Talk to Your Ex (If You Can)
Sometimes things go off track because of misunderstandings or changes in circumstances. If it feels safe and possible, try having a calm conversation with your ex about why the parenting orders are important.
You might be able to work out a temporary arrangement or clear up any confusion without needing to get the courts involved.
Keep a Detailed Record
If talking doesn’t help, start keeping a record of when and how the parenting orders are not being followed. Write down dates, times, what happened, and how it affected your child or you.
This information can be really important if you need to take the matter further.
Consider Mediation
Before going to court, you usually need to try family dispute resolution (mediation). A mediator can help you and your ex talk through the issues and hopefully come to an agreement that works for everyone — especially the kids.
Taking the Matter to Court
If breaches continue or the current orders aren’t working, you can apply to the Family Court or Federal Circuit Court. You can ask the court to enforce the orders or change them to better suit your child’s needs.
The court’s focus is always on what’s best for the child.
Urgent Help If There’s a Safety Concern
If you believe your child is at immediate risk, it’s important to act quickly. You can apply for urgent parenting orders or involve the police if necessary. Safety always comes first.
How Alpine Legal Can Support You
Dealing with parenting disputes is tough. Alpine Legal can help by explaining your options clearly, helping you prepare any applications, and supporting you through mediation or court processes.